Let's Play "Election Crystal Ball"

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I wonder what will happen next Tuesday, don't you? Where were you eight years ago? I remember staying up past 2 am watching Tim Russert {*sniff* I miss Tim.} tallying the electoral votes. I fell asleep on the couch, unable to turn off the TV and go to bed. I just knew that there was no way I would wake up and we wouldn't know who the next president was.

Is anyone else worried this election will make 2000 look like a cake walk? Each side has thousands of attorneys ready to roll, challenging the electoral process. Unless one candidate completely sweeps the country I predict spending most of November wondering who will win.

Obviously, no one knows what will happen next week, but let's look in our crystal ball. What do we *think* will happen?

My guess? It will be close. I unfortunately predict tons of lawsuits. We will have a winner by Thanksgiving. Of course, I am totally making this up. I have no idea what I am talking about, as usual.

Sound off, Friends of Fussy, what do you think will happen? Who will win? Will we know who won on election day? It'll be fun to come back and look at what we all said after the election. Now be nice to everyone else. This is my house and I kick out people who don't play nice.

So look in that Election '08 Crystal Ball and tell me what you think will happen next week. We'll see who had the best electoral psychic abilities 

Love, Alli

Name that Inappropriate Photo

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There is just so much wrong here! Have fun with this one. So go Name that Inappropriate photo!

Love, Alli

**Quick Housekeeping Note**

I have a confession to make. I have not mailed out winning earrings for the contest in two months {cowers}. I think about it, I feel awful, I say, "I'll do it tomorrow." So now I'm in a hole. Halp!!

If you won a Name tht Photo contest please, please email me so I can apologize profusely and mail them A.S.A.P. {blush}

Fight the Frump- Baby fat & blogging butt!

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I have a problem. Not the mold (hey, we move home this weekend!), not my ongoing war with the laundry pile, this is serious. I have a problem. It is a double whammy of trouble- baby fat & blogging butt.

That is right. I have left over baby fat from having bebe #5 in May, combined with a bad case of blogger butt. Apparently me wishing the pounds away is not working. Ignoring the problem seems not to be paying off.

During the day I try to eat healthily, but then the evenings... Yeah, you know where this is going... hubs pulls out the chips, the boys eat Hershey's kisses and I pour that lovely glass of red wine. My problem with wine isn't the calories, it is that after I have a glass, I'm all happy go lucky & the world is fabulous. I do not care that those chips & chocolate are bad for me.

So, it's up to you, I need to drop some serious poundage. Tell me how you do it? I need your tips, tricks and secrets.

Do not tell me to join a gym & here is why- the baby gets sick from nursery & they never have childcare for school age kids during the day. Plus, I can't drop any coin on a membership right now.

Also, can you not suggest eating less & exercising more? That is really boring and I won't do it. I know, I live with me.

Share your thoughts. Do you have weight troubles, too? How do you manage it. What do you recommend eating? And OK, just for the funny factor, what do you recommend doing for exercise with the 5 boys in tow?

Seriously, do you think attendees of the BlissDom conference will mind if I confiscate their cameras just to make sure no shots of my behind are accidentally in the background? Oh, won't work? Bummer.

Love you, Alli

PS. I send out evites today to pick the lucky 75 women who will get to attend the BlissDom conference! Email me if you would love an evite.

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If you are Fighting the Frump with me, please leave your link in the comments! Sorry for my lack of Mr. Linky. It's on my list of things to fix! {grrrrrr} xoxo, A.

Voting, Funnies, Alan Greenspan and Fussy Q&A?

I want to add an honorable mention to Kim who submitted this (too long to fit in the poll) gem-

"Ma'am, I'm going to let you off with a fix-it ticket this time, but you really need to get those headlights taken care of before they cause an accident."

Now, start voting! Winner will be announced next week!

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Stuff that makes me laugh-

Ok, I admit this next one, to me, is brilliant-

Obama Pictures and McCain Pictures

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This would so be me. Poor dude.

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Comment theme of the day is Fussy Q & A.

Everything you ever wanted to know about Mrs. Fussypants but were afraid to ask. You can ask anything you want, silly or serious, big or little. I'll pick a couple randomly and do a post next week. {If you would rather email me your question, that is cool, too!}

OK, y'all, have fun!

Love you immensely, Alli 

Fight the Frump -Affordable Slimming Jeans

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I found some affordable jeans last weekend that help me hide my extra 30 5 left over pregnancy pounds. They are Levi's slimming jeans and I found some for 30 last weekend at Academy Sports. Why at a sports store, you ask? We were buying more football stuff and little boy *coughsCUPScoughs* for protection. TMI? Sorry.

Anyhoo, back to the jeans, they really do hide the bumpies and make a cute silhouette. Y'all know I detest buying clothes new, and much prefer finding designer treasures at thrift stores, but these are worth it.

What is your favorite item of clothing that makes you look awesome? I'd love to collect a ton of great ideas in the comments from the Friends of Fussy!

Sorry, no Fight the Frump over the last two weeks. Blame my crazy life! If you still are posting your Fight the Frump {oh, I hope so!} Please link in the comment section!

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Hey, you look great! You been losing weight?

Love ya bunches, Alli

BPA, Dangerous Plastics, Boys Adrift, and Scarey Headlines

**I am reposting this from last October because of the FDA finally taking a look at the dangers of BPA {Bisphenol A}. BPA is a chemical in certain types of hard plastics. It is especially common in baby bottles. Please read this post & send to your friends! xoxo, Alli**

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I recently read a wonderful book by family physician, research psychologist, and best selling author Dr. Leonard Sax. His new book, Boys Adrift, answered many of the questions that many mothers of boys have. The most important one being, why in the world do today's boys and young men seem so unmotivated and uninterested in school? How could thing have changed so much in one generation? Why is this not happening in other western nations?

endocrine disruptors because our bodies read them as a hormone- ESTROGEN! Imagine if we purposely gave our sons excess estrogen?  Dr. Sax said,  "There is really a huge and rapidly-growing body of evidence now linking these endocrine disruptors, these environmental estrogens, to many of the phenomena I describe in the book: boys being less motivated, young men having more problems with erectile dysfunction, boys breaking their bones more easily than boys did a generation ago, and so forth." He also said that he prescribes more Viagra for men under 30 than he does for men over 40.

Dr. Sax identifies five factors that work together to put young boys at risk-

1. Changes in education over the past three decades. How has kindergarten changed? Thirty years ago, kindergarten was primarily about socialization. Typical activities then would have included finger-painting, singing in rounds, playing duck-duck-goose, etc. Not any more. Today, kindergarten is first and foremost about teaching literacy and learning basic arithmetic. In 2007, the kindergarten curriculum at most American schools, both public and private, looks very much like the first-grade curriculum of 1977. Nowadays, it’s all about learning to read and write. I have yet to find any replicable studies that prove early forced learning has any long-term benefit at all.

It’s a bad thing because girls’ and boys’ brains develop differently, and for many boys, it’s simply not developmentally appropriate to ask them to learn to read at age five. A distinguished team of 15 neuroscientists, based primarily at the National Institute of Mental Health in Bethesda, MD, recently published a remarkable account of the development of the human brain (see “Recommended Reading”). Since the early 1990s, these investigators have been doing MRI scans on young children’s brains. The team’s July 2007 report was its most definitive account yet. Among the most striking findings were the differences in the developmental trajectories of girls and boys. These researchers have found that the various regions of the brain develop in a different sequence and tempo in girls compared with boys.

It now appears that the brain’s language centers in many five-year-old boys look like the language centers in the brains of the average three-and-a-half-year-old girl. Have you ever tried to teach a three-year-old girl to read? It’s frustrating, both for the teacher and the child. It’s simply not developmentally appropriate, to use the jargon of early childhood educators. You’re asking a young girl to do something that her brain is just not yet ready to do.

Trying to teach many five-year-old boys to read and write may be just as inappropriate. These boys aren’t dumb, any more than three-year-old girls are dumb. Timing is everything—in education as in many other fields. It’s not enough to teach well. You have to do the right thing at the right time. Asking five-year-old boys to learn to read—when they’d rather be running around or playing games—may be the worst possible introduction to school, at least for some boys.

2. Video games. Recent scholarly work demonstrates clearly that some of the most popular video games are distracting boys from real-world pursuits. Many boys spend up to 5 hours a day (school-days) playing these supa-fab realistic games on plasma TVs. Of course, real life gets boring.

3. Medications for ADHD. Medications such as Adderall, Ritalin, Concerta, and Metadate, which are over prescribed, may be causing irreversible damage to the motivational centers of boys’ brains.

4. Endocrine disruptors. Environmental estrogens from plastic bottles and other sources may be throwing boys’ endocrine systems out of whack. Here is a quick intro. to the wonderful world of endocrine disruptors.

5. Devaluation of masculinity. Shifts in popular culture have transformed the role models of manhood. Forty years ago, we had Father Knows Best; today we have The Simpsons. Have y'all noticed that every commercial and sit-com shows the father as a big doofus, and mom being the all-knowing boss? This is especially true for those "kiddie cartoons" on the Disney Channel and Nickelodeon. Every kid is a smartypants genius and the parents are all idiots. I don't allow any of these shows, except Hannah Montana. That one is OK. Sorry, off on a tangent.....Where's my Ritalin? Just kidding!

Any mother of a son over 10 can tell many stories of boys, her own or not, who seem absolutely hostile to school, obsessed with his video games, and lacks a strong connection with an adult male role- models (Father, Coach, etc...) Many times, these boys are put on ADD "academic steroids" medication and a general listlessness takes over. It is this sort of 'common sense observations' which made the book resonate with me.

Here are a few quick facts-

  • The United States has about 5% of the world's population but consumes about 90% of the total global production of ADHD medications such as Adderall, Ritalin, Concerta, and Metadate. (Please see chapter 4 of Boys Adrift for more facts and figures about the overdiagnosis and over-prescribing of medications for ADHD in the United States.)
  • In some suburban schools, more than half of the boys are being treated with medications for ADHD."Boys in 2007 are thirty times more likely to be taking these medications compared with boys in 1987," Sax writes. He notes the distressing new research indicating that even low doses of these drugs permanently alter the nucleus accumbens, an area of the brain associated with motivation.
  • Certain types of plastics (BPa) leach chemicals into our food and water. There actually are a number of studies which show that substances found in common plastics can act as estrogens in animals and can even decrease those animal's testosterone levels and sperm production. The estrogens effect the male brain differently, by attacking the brain centers that affect motivation. In females, this brain center is not effected. Excess estrogen cause early onset puberty. It's not the hormones in meat, peoples, it's estrogen mimic chemicals that leach out of PBa plastics!
  • This increase in estrogen in women not only causes early onset puberty, but puts women at an increased risk of developing breast cancer.
  • Over the last 20 years during which we've seen an acceleration and intensification of the early elementary curriculum, there has been an explosion in the number of kids, especially boys, being diagnosed with attention-deficit disorder. Hmmmm!
  • He points out that Finland, which doesn't start education until age 7, has some of the highest test scores in the world.
  • In public schools, not so much in the elite private schools, recess has been cut back. There's less music, less art, less physical education, and more reading drills, writing drills, and arithmetic exercises. (This is often done in an ill-advised way to ensure more federal funding.) When you turn elementary school into year-round test-prep, you will see test scores rise. But that improvement comes at a price. Some students, especially boys, tune out. They lose interest. They no longer read for fun. (See chapter 2 of Boys Adrift for documentation of the lower propensity of boys to read for fun today compared with 1980.)

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Because I aim to please......

My Dr. Oz post

Pass on the Plastic from Blissfully Domestic

The Boys Adrift Website

A wonderful podcast interview with Dr. Sax complete with Q&A call-ins!

A Washington Post Op-Ed by Dr. Sax

National Review interview with Dr. Sax

Read this about what endocrine disruptors do to your body.

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Alarmed about plastics? Join the club....

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As a quick rule of thumb- Look at the recycling codes on the bottom of all your plastics. The code inside the three recycling arrows are important.

Here is what I know about what brands (sippy cups/bottles) use the type of plastic that leaches PBa's-

Unsafe plastics-

#3- PVC

#6-PS

#7-Polycarbonate {the jury is still out on this one}

Look for-

#1-PETE

#2-HDPE

#4-LDPE

#5-PP

BPA is in the canned food liners and plastic utensils. Be careful.

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Love to you all,

Alli

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