Fight the Frump - Q & A with Fussy

This is the last Fight the Frump for a few weeks here at Fussypants. Starting next week, it will be hosted graciously by the supa-fab Karla at Looking Towards Heaven. Y'all will keep fighting the frump while I'm busy with the baby right? Don't let me down. I'll be frumpin' it up -postpartum style. I'll need your tips to re-inspire me all this month.

I get three questions emailed to me repeatedly about my Frump Fighting movement. Let's clarify a bit before I take a couple weeks off. Here goes...

Q- Dear Fussy, You always show very thin women in the pictures. What about plus sized women? Are plus sized women not stylish? 

A- I am a true believer that women can be and are beautiful at any size. It's not about waistline measurements, it's about how you decorate your waistline!

My campaign is to simply rid the world of ill fitting clothes. Especially pants that are being eaten by the wearer's hindquarters. Nom...nom...nom...

Q) Dear Fussy, You tell your readers to wear makeup. I believe women are beautiful without makeup. I think you put undo pressure on women to live up to impossible standards in society.

A) I do believe in the transformational power of cosmetics. Are women beautiful without them? Of course, the world is full of natural beauties. Me personally? Not so much.

I just know from my own experience that I look three trillion times better with make-up.  Remember the line in Steel Magnolias when Dolly Parton says, "Now honey, repeat after me, "There's no such thing as natural beauty!" Old southern beliefs don't go away easily.

Just look at this example of a 'Mommy Makeover'

I'm a firm believer that some make up and new hairdo will do wonders for how we present ourselves to the world. When we feel comfortable and even more beautiful in our own skin then we will project that confidence in our daily lives.

Q) Dear Fussy, I am a stay home mom and just can not afford a new wardrobe. What am I supposed to do when I have no room for new clothes in my budget?

A) You are in luck because it is now the beginning of my favorite season of the year -Yard Sale Season! What? You haven't entered the realm of the Saturday Morning Yard Sale Commando? Well, honey, there is no time like the present!

Also, take advantage of thrift stores in your area. It is fun to drop off a couple bags of clothes to the donation box and go right in and pick up some fresh finds. Today I found 3 adorable A-line skirts from the Gap and adorable Chico's pants to wear after I have the baby. Guess how much I paid....c'mon....guess...$9.00! The four pieces together would have been over $200 retail. Score!

My advice is to learn what pieces flatter your body and simply keep an eye out, before you know it your closet will be transformed into a stash o' style. The best part is it can all be done in a very budget wise way.

Here is an example of stylish pieces to look for. Please excuse the unfortunate Fussy head on top. ;)

 

  Now it is your turn to share your wisdom, tips, progress and goals. How do you fight the frump? Be sure to play nice- Use the graphic, link back here and have fun!

Go Team Fussy Frump Fighters!

Love, Fuss

Comments

[karla ~ looking towards heaven]

PLEASE take me yard sal-ing.
kthanx

[We are THAT family]

I'm a new frump fighter and this is my first comment-I'm fighting the lurking too. Have a safe delivery and a healthy baby, 'mkay? Blessings to you.

[Heather]

Wonderful Q & A! I'll have to work on a plus-size FTF post. I have some recent FTF finds that will hopefully inspire other plus-size gals. I even found some great black capris!

I'm gonna read thru Fussy archives to stay inspired while you're tending to the little one. Love ya! MWAH!!!

[Sarah]

Great post! Best wishes to you in your delivery. We want to hear all about it - especially post-maternity transition clothes - always a challenge but I know you will rise to the occasion!

God Bless,

[Valarie]

I am getting so excited for you! I hope you feeling ok, I know you have got to be ready. :)

[Karen]

That natural beauty thing fades with age. There was a day (years actually) when makeup was optional. Now? I won't be seen in public without it. If I can help it. Not that I wear over-much, but subtle helps are woman's best friend.

[Joy]

Enjoy that beautiful new little one! Praying for a safe and healthy delivery for you both!

[Tamra]

I like to think I don't NEED cute clothes and makeup... but, boy, do I sure love 'em. And I'm supah thankful for them too!
The way I see it... I don't go for the spartan look in my home, either, but decorate it to be welcoming and attractive, without being overdone.

[Michelle@Life with Three]

I need to check out my local thrift shop more often. I know there are some great finds to be had -- thanks for the reminder. And...good luck with that sweet new baby! :)

[ali]

that line? from steel magnolias? one of my favorites!

[LAURIEOFTHESEVENSTORIES]

Left you well wishes on my blog. Hopefully, you will have a chance to visit before baby. If not, I say here, best of luck with everything.

[mikki roo]

I'm coming out of lurking finally... love this site, love learning new ways to fight the frump & take care of myself (for a change!)... Good luck with baby!

[Summer]

Garage sale season is my favorite season. :D

[jill]

Don't forget E-Bay-always a treasure trove of fashion finds at amazing prices!

[Lotta]

I love your commentary on the white pants lady photo. Oh, and will you come and dress me? Or at least perform a citizens arrest to get me out of these old capris?

[Colleen]

I will definitely have to catch up on these 'fight the frump' posts! I wrote just this last week that I was becomig the Mommy I swore I would never be - the frumpy kind! I guess at least I've realized it and there are two piece of clothing that are definitely GOING!

Blessings to you for a safe delivery!

[Mel]

I HAD to comment! Your collage of women who are dressed well, the one in the middle? I am a member of the same church as her! I glanced at it, and thought, "I KNOW her!" Our daughters are nearly the same age! And yes, she always looks lovely when I see her.

[Sherry]

I love the way you tell it like it is!